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Sexual Identity

QUEER, BI, LESBIAN….JUST NOT SURE?

Jenny, 16: "I kept thinking that it would go away, that one day I would wake up and start looking at guys and thinking they were cute. Instead of waking up every day looking at girls and women and wondering what it would be like to kiss them."

" And then one day I really did wake up. And I realised that maybe I didn’t like guys that way. Maybe I was gay. And it was scary and a relief all at once."

Mark, 15: "I get sick of being called faggot and poof. I’m not sure what I am. I know that I like guys and sometimes I like girls. I just don’t know what I am and I don’t know who to talk to."

Tran, 17: "I’ve always known that I like other guys. I just want to find a safe place to meet other people like me, and to be able to talk about what’s happening in my life".

Sound familiar? If you think you might be gay, lesbian, bisexual or queer, or you’re just not sure, call the Action Centre on (03) 9654 4766 or 1800 013 952. Come and see us, or just ring us to talk, get information or to find out where to meet other young people who are just like you.

We run social support groups for young people who are attracted to others of the same sex. It’s a chance to meet and talk with other young people, to learn about coming out, dealing with homophobia, relationships, safer sex, and a whole lot more. If you’re not ready for a group, you can meet with us one-to-one, or just chat on the phone. If you can’t get in to us, we can tell you where the nearest group to you is situated. If you need to see a doctor, nurse or counsellor, rest assured that the ones at the Action Centre are cool if you’re queer!

While you’re here, check out sections on Sexual Orientation and Supporting same-sex attracted young people, their families, schools and communities